The CPNY F-PLAN REQUEST field being grey usually means the FMC does not currently see a company route to request. In the EFB, confirm the SimBrief OFP has actually been imported/generated, not just entered, then use the EFB option to send/import the route to the FMC. Also check you are using the same SimBrief pilot ID and that the route has finished processing. If it remains grey after that, report it as a possible bug with your exact steps.